INSIGHT COUNSELING CENTER

Helping you heal and become the best version of yourself.

Compassionate Online Therapy for Adults and Teens | Serving All of California

Feel Seen, Heard, and Understood.

Maybe you’re the one everyone turns to, but you’re not sure where you go to process the hard things. You want to feel grounded. Connected. Seen for all of who you are without needing to explain or minimize your experience. If anxiety, burnout, or big life changes are leaving you overwhelmed, therapy can help you move forward with more clarity, calm, and confidence.

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Hi, I'm Sheila.

I started this practice in 2010 with the belief that healing works best when you're treated like a whole person, not just a set of symptoms. No cookie-cutter approaches, no rushed sessions. Just honest, thoughtful work from someone who cares about every person who walks through the (virtual) door.

The work I do isn't only academic. I bring lived understanding of what it means to grow up in environments where there wasn't much room to be a kid. I grew up in a home shaped by mental illness and addiction, where I learned early to take care of others before I was ever taken care of myself. The tools, insight, and healing I built along the way inform how I show up for every client. I know what it's like to feel responsible for everyone, to second-guess yourself, and to wonder if you'll ever stop carrying it all. I also know what's possible when you finally have the space to put it down. And what it takes to build a life that actually feels like your own.

Every therapist on our team shares the same commitment.

Insight Counseling Center provides online therapy to adults and teens, rooted in inclusive, trauma-informed care that honors identity, culture, and intergenerational experiences in healing. We bring clinical expertise and real human warmth to every session, because it's about someone genuinely seeing you, where you've been, where you're stuck, and where you want to go.

If you’ve been thinking about starting therapy but that first step feels too overwhelming, we understand. Let’s start with a free 15 minute consultation. No pressure.

Online sessions serving all of California

Accepting most
major insurance plans

Evidence-based, trauma-informed care

The Difference Therapy Makes.

Right now... After the work...
You say "I'm fine" so often you almost believe it. You feel like yourself, not just the version of you that's surviving.
The same arguments, the same spiral, the same exhaustion. You stop carrying everything alone.
You pour into everyone else and wonder why you're empty. You set boundaries without guilt.
You feel more like a role than a person. You actually look forward to things again.
The people closest to you get the worst version of you. Your relationships feel closer, not heavier.

Ways We Can Help.

Meet Our Team.

Mental health professionals who lead with compassion, clinical expertise, and deep respect for every client’s story.

  • Sheila Paul

    Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist,
    Founder, Clinical Director

  • Sarah Kindred

    Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist,
    Registered Associate Professional Clinical Counselor

  • Bryon Raymond

    Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist

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    Steven Brewer

    Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist,
    Consulting Clinical Supervisor

What People Say.

  • "I was provided a safe, non-judgmental space where I felt heard. Through our work, I gained tools that helped me feel less anxious and more like myself."

    —Former Client

  • "Best counselor anywhere. Saved my life, literally. Sheila knows how to ask the right questions, is kind, and makes a difference."

    —Former Client

  • "Going to counseling, I gained a deeper understanding of myself and learned skills to manage my emotions. I feel like a weight's been lifted off my shoulders!"

    —Former Client

  • "I had the opportunity to collaborate and learn with Sarah. Her warmth, compassion, and kindness are admirable. Her gentle presence serves as an anchor for those seeking to navigate life's complexities. I highly recommend her!"

    —John Cabonce, LPCC, ASW, PPS

  • "Sheila implements techniques that allow individuals to be heard. The skills implemented give those being served an increase in quality of life through healing. The gentle nature and warm atmosphere highlight her nature of serving."

    — Anthonie Etienne, LMFT, MMIN, MDiv | The Calm in the Wilderness Counseling & Ministry

  • "Sheila is amazing, empathetic, caring, and extremely knowledgeable. Her ability to create a safe space for her clients to work through their concerns is uncanny."

    —Steven Brewer, LMFT | Kintsugi Family Counseling

  • "I highly recommend this therapist for their committed adherence to ethical and clinical standards. They excel at establishing solid therapeutic connections and adjusting treatment to suit each person's needs."

    — Scott Donovan, LMFT | Donovan Individual & Family Counseling

  • "Compassionate, trauma-informed therapist who uses EMDR to help clients safely process and heal from traumatic experiences. Sheila provides a supportive, empowering space that promotes resilience and lasting emotional growth."

    — Sandra Carlson, LMFT | Mindfully Balanced

We accept most insurance plans.

Aetna • Anthem • Blue Shield of California • Cigna • Inland Empire Health Plan (IEHP) • Kaiser • Magellan • Molina • Santa Clara Family Health Plan (SCFHP)

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Three simple steps to get started.


01 | Let’s Talk.

Schedule a free 15 minute consultation by phone or video. Just a conversation about what you're looking for and whether we're the right fit. We'll answer questions and walk you through next steps.

02 | Let’s Schedule.

If we're a good match, we'll schedule your first session and send over intake forms. You'll complete a short questionnaire at your own pace before we meet, so your therapist can hit the ground running.

03 | Let’s Begin.

You're booked and ready to go. Your first 60-minute session is about getting to know you, your story, your goals, and what you need to feel truly supported. From there, we'll build a plan together.

FAQ

Questions we hear most often.

  • Therapy is a collaborative process where you safely explore your thoughts, emotions, and patterns with a licensed professional. Online therapy allows you to attend sessions from home using a secure video platform — it's convenient, private, and just as effective as in-person therapy for most people.

  • Most clients begin with weekly sessions lasting 60 minutes, though this can shift over time based on progress and personal preference. You may talk about current challenges, past experiences, or relationship dynamics — your therapist guides the process with insight, reflection, and practical strategies.

  • Yes. What you share in therapy is protected by strict confidentiality laws. The only exceptions involve situations where there is a legal obligation to ensure safety — such as threats of harm to self or others, or mandated reporting of abuse. These guidelines are clearly reviewed during intake.

  • You don’t have to be in crisis to benefit from therapy. Many people begin when they’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck in unhelpful patterns, facing life transitions, or wanting to better understand themselves. If you’ve been feeling anxious, depressed, burned out, or disconnected, therapy can offer clarity, support, and new ways forward.

  • Yes. Therapy is always your choice and you are never locked into a set number of sessions. We encourage ongoing conversations about your goals. When you're ready to pause or end treatment, we'll work together to bring closure and provide referrals if needed.

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